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All you need is Love ...
As on per one of my sweet nephew Joj’s request today I will write something about love. Hope you all will enjoy!
LOVE - Some say it's mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
I will say : "To describe love is very difficult, for the same reason that words cannot fully describe the flavor of an orange. You have to taste the fruit to know its flavor. So with love." Phew..
Love is loving someone without expecting anything in return; no judgments, no restrictions; no limitations; no expectations! This is an unconditional Love . Hardly ones can find in this world. Love is forever green. One should enjoy its peakloads the sorrow and happiness. That is Love.
Now the question is that if you are lost your love or you lost in love what you need to do? Huh , the healing process takes time. Try to work on the following points hope it will be helpful.
1-Reconnect With Loved Ones: Hopefully your friends and family will be there to support you after a break up. Do not be afraid to tell them what happened. They might be able to provide a caring ear, encouragement, and advice. Spending more time with family and friends will help you to remember that you are still loved, there are people who cares for you and they love you, even if you do not have a significant other( your love) in your life anymore.
2-Partake in Your Passions: So many times we forget or ditch the things we love when we are in a new relationship or in love. Now that you have more free time in your life, spend it doing the things you love or searching for a new hobby. This will help you keep your mind off your ex and heal slowly.
3-Extract Emotions: It is natural to have second thoughts . Usually with these second thoughts comes the urge to call or write the person. Do not contact them under any circumstances. This is part of your healing time. If you cannot resist the urge to speak to them, write it out in a letter instead. Write whatever you want, and then burn it. Do not send it! You can also get out your emotions through Journaling, writing songs or poetry, or even taking physical action, like kickboxing, jogging, long walks(my fav) etc etc.
4-Erase Memories: You will never heal your broken heart if you continue to look at their picture or try to think about your old beautiful memories. However, burning all of the stuff that reminds them of you is very drastic. Instead, stick it all in a box and shove it in a closet or give it to someone you trust. You do not want to get rid of this stuff just yet. You may want to look back on it later in life, or there may be a slight chance that you will both get back together.
Recovering from a broken heart is a very hard thing to do. You just have to take the process slow and one day at a time. You also need to realize how valuable you are as a person. Life will eventually move on, and the best thing for you to do is to let life move on.
Once again try to find a happiness in small things. Keep youself busy with different hobbies. Try to find happiness in you not around you.
If your love is true then wait and see I bet, the same person will come back in your life . . .
For my sweet Nephew I am dedicating this song “All you need is love” by The Beatles”. God bless and keep smiling!
~Irma Khan
1 comments:
- Rumi Khan said... August 3, 2008 at 11:48 AM
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