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Forbidden Relation
On the request of my friend ..
Relationship is connection, correlation, interconnection, interdependence, interrelationship, link, linkage, relation, tie-in, informal hookup. The condition or fact of being related; connection or association.
All around the world when you think of forbidden relationship, in all societies there are probably many kinds of relationships that are forbidden. On some occasions forbidden relationships ended up in a strong bond of marriage but on the other end the happy marriage life ended or breaks. Relations that has no name in our society or religion. Even in the modern world, people who are married are not expected to have relations, soul mates or romantic affairs with people other than their spouses. Even so, sometimes people just fall in love when they’re not supposed to. Sometimes they have deficiency of anything in their life and they start looking outside of his/her life.This kind of situation probably occurs in most times and places. What is important historically is when artists or writers begin to celebrate such "forbidden" relations or love, or at least to treat it sympathetically, as Shakespeare does in "Romeo and Juliet." Why should this matter? Because it shows that some people recognize the legitimacy of private feelings as opposed to public morality. It shows that an individual has a space belonging to him or her which is separate from society’s rules and which has its own kind of rightness which doesn’t always conform to what religion or society demands. Forbidden relation are varies on (1) exchanging secrets about the self or "Becoming Confidantes" and (2) creating mutual secrets or "Becoming a We. These lead to intense feelings, idealization, and trust,through the construction of mutual secrets (rituals and property), which are imbued with intense symbolic significance. Secrecy protects the interests of the powerful.
Forbidden relationship change ones way of thinking and life. Life started seems very different, fresh and beautiful. Person will start enjoying every single bit of it. But alas he or she does not thinks about the future. The forbidden relations will not last long. That bond is temporary. Moods swings due to stresses and events can at times cause all of us to adopt a poor attitude or negativism so we must keep an eye on our own behavior. We all have our own perceptions and judgments of the world based on our own experiences. In other words every person is thinking that they are doing right thing in accordance under their point of views and experiences. For me understanding and reasonable compromise will work much better. So it is my way of presenting the forbidden relationship may or may be not you agree ... Please do keep me sending the emails, advises and comments. Keep smiling!
~Irma Khan
hey you write very well. it are a good writer then a psycart. its seems you are an artistic and caring person. coz only caring person can think in so depth.