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Love and Sex
Love - Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my girlfriend"). This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
The true meaning of love is found in the word "unconditional". Loving someone through their flaws and all. Accepting and embracing each others differences and compromising with their offerings. Love means that when you meet someone you really like you will like them no matter what your friends or anyone says or does. True love is not something that you can cause to happen, and sometimes it takes many years before you find that perfect sweetheart to share your hopes, dreams and life with. For me it is strange when we use the name of heart people goes direct to love and they do not feel the difference between lust and love. A real or true love is unconditional. Love at first sight is real and can happen to you, but make sure you take the time to ensure that what you feel really is love and not just infatuation. You see, true love may be out there, but people who are new to romance may mistake other feelings for true love. The best advice is to take your time and be wary of rushing into anything. So, is true love real? Of course it is! And true love is something you can find, regardless of who you are, where you find yourself, or what you’ve experienced. Far too often, people allow themselves to become skeptical of romance just because they don’t find true love fast enough. Believe me: true love is worth the wait! Keep practicing patience, keep surrounding yourself with a romantic environment, and remain optimistic . . . and true love will find you!
Everyone is unique, and it is inappropriate to place a stereotypical clause on a person’s capability of experiencing true love. It is unfair, especially since this emotion is so complex that we will probably never fully understand it. Each person feels true love in his or her own unique way. The only person fit to be chosen to discern one’s capability of true love, is that person himself/herself. True love is an emotion that can be experienced by anyone, young or old, provided that they have reached the required level of emotional maturity. The point at which one reaches this level is not determined by age alone. Some, if not all, teenagers are certainly capable of experiencing true love. When you would give up your whole world, give up your life, your everything just to make sure that person you love is ok...The unconditional feeling that you feel for another person. You don't have reasons for loving, you just do. Even if the feeling isn't mutual. The feeling that inspires, that revives, sometimes even hurts. Age, Looks, Social Status, What others think doesn't matter. The sometimes ecstatic, sometimes excruciating blessing from heaven.Love without need for sex, beauty, anything physical, or money. Often mistaken with a crush. No need for return of affection. In a loving relationship the couple behaves thoughtfully towards each other and is mindful of their partner’s feelings. Love has a positive affect on a relationship because when love exists in a relationship both partners hold the happiness of the other in a high esteem and place the happiness of their partner ahead of their own desires.
Sex -In biology, sex is a process of combining and mixing genetic traits, often resulting in the specialization of organisms into male and female types (or sexes). Sexual reproduction involves combining specialized cells (gametes) to form offspring that inherit traits from both parents. Sex is the sum of the structural, functional, and behavioral characteristics of organisms that are involved in reproduction marked by the union of gametes and that distinguish males and females. Sex can be so many things, that to try to define what sex is and what sex isn't is near impossible. But we can define what sexualizing something means, at least from the perspective of Cuddle Parties. Sexualizing is when you're intention is to get to the next base, really. It's that simple. Are you kissing him or her because you're enjoying the feel of their lips, or are you testing the waters to see if you can get to Second Base? Are your arms wrapped around his or her waist and pulling them closer because you're enjoying the feel of breathing in rhythm together or are you trying to see if they'll grind their behind into your groin? Are you nuzzling into their embrace because it's comforting and sweet, or are trying to arouse them to reassure yourself that you've "still got it"? Sex is a need ,a desire. Sex is an important part of a relationship but if it is or becomes the most important aspect then there is no ''real'' relationship. It can be the ultimate expression of love between two people, a way to communicate feelings that are difficult to express in words. It's pretty darn important for procreation - obvious exceptions being infertility or disability. I helps build closeness and intimacy, relieves stress, gives comfort. Sex differentiates a romantic relationship from a platonic relationship. Sex is more important to some people than others.
Love is our need to feel Safe. Sex is our need to feel Satisfied. When two people are truly deeply in love they give themselves each other in the act of sex. You do NOT need to have sex to find out if you're in love. So in a matter of words- there's sex in true love but there's no true love in just sex. Love has meaning. Love is true, love is trust, love is honestly. Sex is not love .When you love someone unconditionally. You accept there flaws, you lift them up when they are down. Sex is created for marriage–a long-lasting commitment between a couple. Outside of marriage, sex can have harsh consequences. Pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, guilt, insecurity, and shame can follow. A relationship based on lust can only last as long as the two are physically close and find each other sexually attractive.
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Posted byIrum Khan
Once upon a time i used to write Afsana (short story). Then my own definition of love was, "no having been able to say no." I think I still believe that.
Nice post.
well, this is a really good and informative post and i think u have defined and differenciated love and sex in a nice manner, but still, there is something missing. i can just feel it but cannot describe it what is it.