Conquer Yourself


There is a saying “"You can conquer others with power, but it takes true strength to conquer yourself." Damn , how could we can conquer our own selves . Conquer is desire or to overcome and take a control. In other words peace of mind and success. There comes a time in life, when we realizes that the external world is no longer interesting and does not give us a peace of mind and happiness. If I discuss about myself, to tell you the truth majority of the time I have the same feelings but I know how to change my negative thinking into positive. Well, I m not a perfect but always trying to learn and improve myself. Too many peak loads in the life makes strong and confident. If a person has a lively personality or smiling face does not means that s/he is very happy and blessed. It means S/he conquer herself.

By conquer does not means external materialistic happiness. It is the happiness of the inner soul, kind a spiritual. Sometimes we like to be direct with our soul and start talking ,exchange thoughts or express with our own self. Uh.huh,majority of the time I cheat with by changing the question or discussion. As realized am wrong but don’t want to confront it because of some emotions or feelings weaken me. Just as your shadow follows you wherever you go, your thoughts are always with you, wherever you are; be it home, at work ,driving, walking or in the bed. The only way things are going to change for me is when I change. How? By using different methods and techniques and try to learn new skills and improve myself slowly and gradually.

To use successful methods for finding happiness including Lifestyle change, Attitude change, Tips for self-improving and more. Begin the path to Peace of mind, Self-improvement and Spiritual success today.. Did you ever answer this question . Who you are? Buddha’s saying “It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles”. Today, in this fast materialistic world, we always under stress to stay in tune with the life. We want to control everybody and everything around us, little realizing that controlling our selves is the key to success, peace of mind and happiness.

There comes a time in life, when ones realizes that the external world is no longer interesting and does not give us the peace and happiness. Then understands that there is something more to life and starts analyzing own self or starts looking within. This is the beginning to conquering own self. This is the beginning for peace and happiness. Did ever noticed that you will take on an assertive role, speak suitably and put yourself in place. You will be in control of the situation. When you have a cool head, you will take the right decisions. Think differently. Do not try to conquer others; rather try to conquer yourself for peace and happiness.

Enjoy what you do, even if you do not have the option of doing what you want. You should love your work and be totally involved and committed to it. Be enthusiastic and energetic at work. Be positive about what you do and the output will be positive too. Try to find happiness in you not around. Try to find happiness in small things and be thankful to it. We must use our sixth sense. Do not blame fate for everything. Prayers are important but remember GOD helps people who help themselves. We need to do our part. Our life’s purpose must be such that our achievement should outlive our lives. It should be beneficial to our family, our organization and society. We are in this world to live and to let live others. To love and help each other. If you explore the purpose and goal, life becomes meaningful. We must try to realize our purpose and goal with a burning desire to achieve and win. Explore your weakness and try to crush them. Then see the difference and how to become effortlessly strong and confident.

Last but not the least as Buddha;-
“Conquer the angry man by love.
Conquer the ill-natured man by goodness.
Conquer the miser with generosity.
Conquer the liar with truth.”

And conquer yourself with “Life is not at an end yet so move on!”Have a goal and get organized. Think positive , do positive and happen will positive.

God bless & keep smiling!

Posted byIrum Khan  

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