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Why Shit Happens...Huh?
And the second question which occur in our mind is why me ? Why me? Why me? Life is like a game of win and loose , ups and downs, joys and sorrows. Whereas human being is very sensitive creature. If you will see the world is sorely lacking problem solving, decision making and critical thinking skills. This is clearly evidenced by the world economic crisis, bad personal and professional decisions and an ongoing lack of true leadership and direction. It has become more and more painfull. Why always we forget that the time will never remain the same. Every night has a morning and morning has a night. Why we get upset ,confused ,puzzled whenever we have a peak-loads in our daily life. Why these peak-loads scattered us fully? The other day I was having a phone-chat with my Dad. I was discussing Dad why always shit happens to me? Dad answered because you are very special to God. And God want to makes you more and more strong. I said O’ please stop it, Dad. Why God want me to be that strong? I do not wish to go on the war? Dad stated if you do not wish to go on the war then organize yourself and look the problem and its solution and do not complain always be thankful to God and live and enjoy every moment of the life. I was listening and ah ,the phone was disconnected. See it means there is something missing or a problem where I need to work on. So whenever shit happens do not think you are a good person therefore it happens. It means you are fucked-up . Take it easy and try to improve yourself...Opsss excuse my french please..
Do you think we can have a quick fix of those crisis. Simple answer is No. But by using different methods and techniques, you can start to tackle problems that might otherwise seem huge, overwhelming, and excessively complex. Sometimes if I face a problem I act like a scape goat and try to ignore it and suffer. Which has really a negative impact on my health and ofcourse life. After realizing all that I came in to the conclusion that I need to face and fix the problem. The more I ignore or hide the more worse impact on my daily life.
How can one start to face and fix it very easily try to root the problem. Flexibility and open-mindedness is an essential part of being able to solve problems. Create a plan to solve the problem, seeing the plan through and reviewing the plan to ensure that the problem is solved and is not repeated. When a person has difficulty imagining a solution to a problem, it is because he is overwhelmed with the details of the problem and lacks the ability to break down the problem or see the big or the right picture. To properly solve problems it is very important to make sure you take the right approach. The approach you use for a problem is often connected to the solution.If you have a huge problem break it down in small pieces and try to solve them one by one. Here are some helpful points how to solve your daily peakloads - crisis -problems;-
1. Define and Identify the Problem
2. Analyze the Problem
3. Identifying Possible Solutions
4. Selecting the Best Solutions
5. Evaluating Solutions
6. Develop an Action Plan
7. Implement the Solution
It is very easy to evaluate and describe our own pain but it is very hard to evaluate others. Always try to find happiness in small things ,explore happiness in you not around . Life is the gift of the God make the most of it. Give a little Love, have a little Hope, let’s make this world little Better,only we can make it Better.If we TRY!
God bless & keep smiling!
Posted byIrum Khan
It is in my personal experience that we delve more into the consequences of the problem instead of looking for solution/solution. On the contrary, if we seriously try to look for the solution/solutions through our intellect or rational behavior; in most of the cases we will be able to find the solution.
At the end , I would also like to say; Don't tell God, how big your problem is; but tell the problem, how big your God is.
Well actually I have quoted someone above. These are not my words, but have become philosophy of my life.