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Our initial attraction to each other was based on incredible sensual pleasures - both sexual and intellectual. Since that initial courtship, for which many fantasize but never realize, our relationship has evolved into great mutual respect, admiration, bonding, and desire to always be with each other. Would you call that love? I would prefer to leave it as I have described it, but if we must call it love, then let's inquire into the meaning of "love". Love is a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend. Love life is an inner feelings and thoughts between two partners. Love is the most subtle form of self-interest.
While there may be a connection between love and sex, it is intellectually more productive to regard them as two separate entities. Romantic love embodies components common to love for our parents, our children and our partner or friends. Sex has nothing to do with love and in fact can contaminate it. Sex is generally very selfish, while true love is very altruistic. Many a romantic evening has been squashed by sex .
On the other hand -- love can enhance sex! Having strong feelings of love for the person you are having sex with can make the sex fantastic. I suspect that a lot of very amateurish sexual activity is labeled great simply because the participants were very much in love with each other. As far as for me I think love is love if it is real one. Love is unconditional where sex act as a secondarily component. It depends on ones thinking how they define love and what is love for them?
How we can improve our relationship? Ahh it is hard to understand other feelings - right? Na, it is not hard at all if you treat others the way you wanted people to treat you, and guess what? It works, for the most part if you give respect you will receive it,(respect begets respect and love begets love) if you need to communicate something to your significant other don't scream it out, speak in the tone you would expect someone to talk to you. Also when you are able to have a positive perception on life, and not a hopeless mentality regardless to how bad it looks, you need to see it as "it could be worse" but it is not. Do not give up, love your spouse like you love yourself, and Don't forget to be kind to one another. Ah!! and the power of forgiveness and repentance, too powerful to be ignored. Make your love a best friend and try to fulfill needs.
~ Be very loyal and honest with yourself and with your spouse .
~Take ownership of your actions.
~Ability to express yourself and try to be open with your spouse.
~Use magic words e.g like be ready to ask for forgiveness or to apologize.
~Develop trust and respect.
~Respect each other needs.
And
~Love is patient and kind.
~Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.
~Love does not demand its own way.
~Love is not irritable and keeps no record of when it has been wronged.
~It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
~Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.
~Love will last forever.
Yesh , please enjoy one of my fav love song by,Celine Dion - Have You Ever Been In Love
To be continued..
Keep smiling and God bless!
Posted byIrum Khan
Hi Irum,
Great Article. But you must differentiate between Love and Sex. You touched upon it but not explained. What i thinks Love is Sacrifice all over and sex is not. Sex may evolve out of Love but Love cannot evolve from Sex.
the topic is concrete but you should let us know in detail more.